Words Matter #9: Say what you want

 
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“We’ve got to reduce defects.”

After the director of manufacturing stated his goal, I asked, “What if your team found a way to increase quality?”

We often default to language that emphasizes what we don’t want:

  • Don't trip.

  • Don’t forget your keys.

  • Stop feeling so nervous.

Instead, select language that focuses on what you do want:

  • Watch your step.

  • Remember your keys.

  • Take a deep breath and be confident.

What cause would you rather rally behind? Decreasing the bad, or increasing the good?

The next goal you set for yourself or your team, be aware of your language.

A slight shift in words can make a huge difference in motivation.

Words matter; say what you want.

Click to hone your skills with another topic in the Words Matter series:

Words Matter #12: Design and deliver better questions

Words Matter #11: Earn your audience's attention

Words Matter #10: Choose learning over knowing

Words Matter #8: Maximize your conversational influence

Words Matter #7: Face your truth

Words Matter #6: Aim to impact; not impress

Words Matter #5: What’s love got to do with it?

Words Matter #4: Don’t contaminate the conversation

Words Matter #3: It's not about you

Words Matter #2: Three dead-weight words to leave behind

Words Matter #1: Communicate with power

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