E-couragement: Who's Writing Your Life?
“If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. Guess what they have planned for you? Not much.” Jim Rohn
I did it before I scurried off to Whole Foods yesterday. I took a moment and created a list. I learned this strategy from my mom. Without my list I wander through the aisles distracted by what I don’t need and forgetting what I do need. Grocery list writing is a common practice for many, yet research tells us that less than 10% of people have a written personal vision statement. Why is creating a grocery list more prevalent than writing down your life map? Without a clear and compelling personal vision statement we’re left to wander down the frozen food aisle of life questioning, how did I get here?
Perhaps the thought of writing a life vision statement is overwhelming. It doesn’t have to be that way. Much like your grocery list, start by simply writing down what comes to mind. Resist the temptation to over think. Here are a few steps to get you going:
- Take inventory: Often before putting together my grocery list I take a quick inventory of what I have and what I need. That’s a good place to start with vision writing. Take stock of who you are and who you’d like to be. In the world of visioning it’s called current reality and future ideal.
- Start writing: Reflect on several areas of your life such as: career, relationships, health/wellbeing, financial, and spiritual.
- Consider language: Use words that are powerful, positive, and present tense. Begin thoughts with, “I am…” For example: I am working in a career that is meaningful, fulfilling, and financially rewarding.
- Add visuals (vision board): Create an even more compelling view of your future by utilizing photos, drawings, etc.
You’re on your way. Keep your vision visible as a means to inspire your daily actions. Want to supercharge your vision? Share it with trusted friends. Research demonstrates that people who write down goals, share them with friends, and send weekly updates on progress are 33% more likely to reach their destination than those who merely write them out.
Your life trajectory is more important than remembering to grab low fat Greek yogurt; give it the attention it deserves. An engaging life has vision, so start thinking, dreaming, writing, sharing, and acting on yours today.
Leave your comments: Advice? What have you found helpful when creating a personal vision?