E-couragement: Do It Like This

Road“Oz never did give nothing to the Tin man, that he didn’t, didn’t already have.” America To improve, grow, and develop is an innate human desire. I am grateful for the opportunity to help people and teams along that path. My work is fulfilling and meaningful, yet I’ve noticed a potential trap between those in my business and our clients. It’s called, “Do it like this.” Let’s take a look at how this happens.

When a person or team recognizes the need to improve and add new skills, they often reach out to a professional consultant, facilitator, or coach. This learning and development professional should then ask strategic questions and listen intently to determine how to assist the client in achieving their desired outcome. The problem occurs when the professional starts rolling out a plan that includes phrases which sound like this:

  • If you want to be an engaging leader, do it like this…
  • If you want to start your own business, do it like this…
  • If you want to experience financial freedom, do it like this…
  • If you want to have more energy, eat like this…
  • If you want to be sleek and strong, workout like this…

You’re not designed to follow a one-size-fits-all “do it like this” path. You’ve got to be an active participant in your own self-discovery. Imagine if the Tin Man, Scarecrow and Lion listened to an infomercial that said, “If you need a heart, do this. If you’re looking for a brain, do this. If you want courage, do this.” What they really needed was to go on a journey that included fear, courage, set backs, teamwork, problem solving, and celebration. And just like you, the magical Land of Oz they were searching for resided within.

Resist the temptation to improve and develop yourself with a “do it like this” mentality. It’s smart to seek advice, support, and guidance, yet in the end you’ll have to make application and discover what really works for you. There is never one way to improve, grow or develop. Chart your course. Take a detour. Walk your own yellow brick road. In the end, you’ll learn more and become more than you ever imagined.

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